Why does my life worry you??

There are currently TWO things that I am being under constant scrutiny for..

N guess wat?

Those precise two things are actually mine (n if there's another soul concerned here, its my husband) to worry / brood about..

But I dont see the reason for others to give crude remarks about it to me, when it is absolutely none of their damn bloody business..

1. The Fact that I have piled up on Fat..

• First and foremost reason, I do not (I repeat..) I DO NOT in anyway depend on a single cent from ANYONE to buy food for myself.. That itself is a very good reason for people to shut their big mouths.. As long as I don't take away your food / money from you, you do not have to worry about my eating habits or my BMI..


• Secondly, if there is another soul to be concerned about it, I give that credit to my dear husband, because I belong body, heart & soul to him n only him.. So he may feel that I'm a disgrace to him (in or out of bed..), but of course, that is not the case.. As far as I know, he is a man so wonderful that he hardly belittles anyone he knows.. N of course, he loves me all that much till you can't even begin to imagine just how much.. N very importantly, he does not belong to the cheap category of people who love to pass rude comments on other people's looks / BMI / whatever n feel nothing about it..


• Thirdly, I would have given the cheap skates some credit if they had first bothered to ask, "Hey gal, u seem to be piling on the weight too much these days..I hope its only because ur happy n its showing..n nothing to worry about.." BUT of course, they are too shallow-minded for all that.. They just bombard.. "Wei, u have put on so much of weight la..can u get in thru the door? Or even worse, can the aeroplane bear your weight?" Wow, i can't begin to explain the urge I have to say some very flowery words I have to these people..

Now, for the sake of clarity to all my family members / friends / foes who have been very supportive to me n also to shallow-minded,cheap skate, frog under the shell people, I choose to disclose this information..
(Mind you..Its not to defend myself, but rather share what I am facing with kind n cruel people around me..So that the ones who care will be kept in the knowing n so that the stupid,shallow-minded ones will know that people, women especially, DO put on weight for reasons other than stuffing too much food down their throats..)

So, i suffer from a condition known as PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) which is a type of hormonal imbalance n the main symptom of it is unexplainable n sudden weight increase.. Those who want to learn more about it can google the term PCOS and there are several articles which will help to explain things in a more medical sort of way..
And I've been going for treatments in Msia n now in Umm Al Quwain Hospital..There's this wonderful gynae here, her name is Dr.Preetha n she has been so helpful in explaining things to me n treating me..

I hope to be able to go thru all the treatments n come out with a clean bill of health..

N just a word of advice to all women readers..This may seem like a small problem, but it causes a lot of unwanted stress n psychological effect on the patient, esp so if its a married woman.. N so, don't take matters lightly.. N if you happen to know anyone who suffers from the same problem, do ask them to seek medical treatment promptly..

to be continued..